The simplest way to achieve your goal.
Friday, January 08, 2016
2016
"Without passion you can never succeed. So even passion to devotion will make you a very good achiever." - Avdhoot Baba Shivanandji.
At the beginning of every year, our hearts pound with new
aspirations and hopes. The will to achieve new horizons is at its peak whenever
we welcome a new year, a new beginning. We have this joy within us where we
feel blessed, and we wish for it to remain this way throughout the year so that
we can fulfil our deepest wishes and meet our major goals. Gradually the year
unfolds and goes by so quickly that in the end we find ourselves facing
incomplete projects and unfulfilled dreams. It was just another year!
If we really want to achieve what we have in mind for the
year, then we really need to work towards it holistically. That is, through our
mind, thoughts, actions and behaviours. As much as achieving a goal sounds
simple, it is in practice, very complex. There are indeed many schools of
thoughts who have devised and designed systems to meet objectives effectively
and efficiently. They are very useful to meet corporate goals but can be quite difficult to use them in our daily life.
Here is a little step-by-step method towards achieving your
objectives or meeting your main goal. Easy to create and follow, we only need to put in some effort.
Achieving Objectives
Step 1
Write down all your plans/wishes/objectives you
have in mind to achieve throughout the year. Randomly just write down
everything. For example, build a new shed in the backyard, join Zumba classes,
finish the painting left to be done in your house, literally anything. You may
be surprised by the amount of things you wish to get done.
Step 2
Now you will categorise them with order of
priority. Here you can use an easy method. Next to every "objective"
you will give a rating of 0 to 2. For example, less urgent targets will score 0
and more urgent ones will score a 2, and those that you feel neutral about will
obviously score 1. Through this method, you may also realise that some
objectives are irrelevant and you will remove them from your list.
Once who've marked your objectives, you will group
all the 2's together, the 1's and the 0's. This will give you an insight of
which objectives are more urgent compared to others and here you will be able
to categorise them under short-term, medium-term to long-term goals. Short-term
could be from February to April, Medium-term will be from May-August and the
rest of the year will cater for long-term goals. This will give you a clear
guideline for the year. One thing to remember here is, not every urgent matter is important, therefore it can wait. Similarly not every important matter is urgent, therefore you can invest more time in doing it. The only main priority is given to those matters that are both important and urgent.
This method works for simple and straight forward objectives
and helps in getting things done in a more structured manner.
Achieving a goal
We all have that one major goal we want to achieve that requires a lot of dedication, time and effort and, its fulfilment is always being slowed down due to several obstacles. We often lose hope and give up half way and get disappointed with ourselves. Achieving main goals requires our full concentration, dedication, devotion and it is primordial to sincerely BELIEVE in that goal. Only these will arise the passion within us to get anything done within the time we want to. With a little bit of self-control and seriousness you can achieve that goal whenever you want. It all depends on your attitude towards it and how you are behaving on a daily basis in relation to that goal.
Here are tools and methods that will help you in your endeavour:
Step 1
Mind mapping. On an a3 size paper, write in the middle of the page in big bold letters, your goal. Then branch out
things that need to be done that will enable you to achieve your goal. From the
simplest to most complex tasks.
Step 2
Browse through all the tasks and write them down
list-wise and do the prioritising exercise by rating each of them from 0 to 2.
Through this, you will discover what you need to start doing as soon as
possible to gradually move on to others until you reach the major goal.
Step 3
Having categorised your objectives, you can now
devise your action plan over 12 months or any amount of months you want,
bearing in mind that the last month is the deadline and you may not go
beyond. By then, your goal is achieved. Spread the objectives over the months;
in this case 12 months. Each objective or task, will have a specific time during which it has to be met. One may be reached within one month while another may take up to 2-3 months. Meanwhile you can work on the next objective.
Other tools you may use in your surroundings to attract the
success of your goal:
1. Create a Vision Board
2. Action Reminders
Stick action reminders where you spend
most of your time. Here you can put your main goal as well as your objectives.
Whichever you want to see more and more. Why not on your phone, or your PC
background? The steering wheel of your car, the mirror in your bathroom? It has
to be everywhere because you are under the process of creating through your
neurones! You are attracting what you think.
3. Pray - Believers,
never doubt the power of your prayer.
4. Meditate
Create a relaxing space with your
vision board in front of you. Stare at everything on it for about 5 minutes.
Then, close your eyes and visualise your goal in real life. Keep chanting your
mantra to materialise your goal. The mantra can be repeating the goal statement
on and on, or any mantra which you use for meditation. Carry on by visualising each and every objective that will enable the success of our goal, being
fulfilled one by one. Say thank you each time.
5. Keep a diary
Write down what you have to do in relation to your goal everyday. Through this you will be keeping track of your progress and help yourself remember important tasks.
6. Adopt the right attitude
- Do not brag about your goal. Keep it secret and personal to yourself.
- Be humble at every step of the way.
- See only the positive points in whatever circumstances. Let positivity prevail in your mind, thoughts and feelings all the way.
- If some things are not working the way you want it to, re-think over the process and try improving.
- See hurdles as challenges, as opportunities and not as problems.
- Believe in your goal. There's no point doing all that if you do not really believe in your goal.
- Adopt an attitude of gratitude in every given situation.
With this little New Year gift, I wish you a wonderful year ahead and
hope that you materialise all your wishes.
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Thank you Nina :)
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